Hey you all lovely people…
This is probably my first “open up” article about self.
Why am I doing it? Because I love being Me!! 🙂 Yes!! That’s Me being me!!
Okay, now let’s get real:
I have done my studies and all, but trust me — nothing in there comes close to saying *I’m a certified coach.* 😂
There’s no framed diploma on my wall. No shiny, Instagram-worthy office space.
And definitely no glam shots of me in a power blazer looking all “coach-y.”
Why?
Politely put… I am “camera shy”. Period.
(That’s just me though — you do you 😄)
So why *am* I here?
Because of LIFE.
And its loud, messy, beautiful, exhausting experiences:
**SAD. HAPPY. ANGRY. FRUSTRATING. LONELY. DEPRESSING.**
which sometimes …feels like a live court hearings session in my head!!
**What I have is life. And a whole lot of listening.**
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I’ve raised my purpose of happiness and well being: **my twins.**
Which, trust me, was NOT one of those *all smiles and playtime montages*.
But would I trade it for anything else? **NEVER.**
Life — and God (I’m not all overtly spiritual, but I’m grounded in Him) — has taught me more in my 15 years of being a “non-career” human than all the 8+ years of formal training and work combined.
And restarting?
**Pfffft.** It felt like someone told me to swim across the Atlantic… with no floaties.
Yes, here I am finally decided to push the RESTART button … And no — it is not as shiny and triumphant as some Instagram reel would make it look!!
So yes I have lived — and still live — in a city where I more than often feel **completely alone.**
Close to invisible. Done the ceilings stare exercise from 9am to 12pm muttering, “What now? How now?When now? Where now?”
But I must say its been a rather slow journey but I am on way to finding some clarity.**
Not because I had or have a perfect plan.
But because I had and still have questions/doubts.
And I prefer not to silence them.
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### 🔥 What no degree taught me — but life did:
We’re all HUMAN/s — and yet we keep judging, comparing, correcting each other like we have got it all figured out!!!
Everyone’s in this manic race — collect degrees, chase titles, land the “dream job”… or better yet, hit 10M subscribers. And then what? **Burn out. Break down. Disappear.**
We earn everything… just to end up hating it.
And for what?
Approval? Status? A LinkedIn badge?
A Red Diamond Play Button?
A “nano influencer” label that means nothing at 3am?
No one tells you that when you lose yourself in the process — **none of it matters.**
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### Why I chose to show up as a Coach:
Because not everyone needs a 12-step system.
Sometimes we just need **one conversation.**
A space to untangle.
A voice that says:
**“You’re not the only one who feels this way.”**
I don’t offer scripts.
I don’t diagnose.
I am with you…
while **you hear yourself again.**
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### If you have ever felt like:
– You are late to your own life or career
– You have missed some secret timeline
– You are the only one who hasn’t “figured it out”
Then trust me —
**I’ve been there.**
Or at the very least, I have passed that road once or twice.
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Not a program. Not a pitch.
Just **a conversation** that might help you unlock a part of yourself
**#UnlockWithPB**